CULTIVATED BEHAVIOR OF
LEADERS
The interpersonal
relationships of leaders and followers can be improved considerably
as a leader cultivates certain behavior. This behaviors include
a) Awareness: Leaders
should have a behavior of general awareness,not only for their jobs,
but should also have an awareness of what they can do to be better
managers and how to motivate their subordinates. Being aware of the
factors that make for leadership effectiveness and of the way in
which styles are contingent on a range of situational considerations
should help any manager learn to be a more effective leader.
Furthermore,as it is true in every area of management,knowing and
being knowledgeable are not enough. A manager must also have the
ability to apply this knowledge to practice.
b) Empathy: Webster
defines empathy as "the imaginative projection of one's own
consciousness into another being". Empathy is the ability to
place one's self in the position of another,stimulating that person's
feelings,prejudices and value.
Managers without
empathy dont place themselves in the position of their subordinates,
they believe that their subordinates have the same
objectives,ambitions, values and biases like them. But it is not
likely they would have the subordinates would have the same as the
managers because people widely differ in every respect but one, which
is that they are all guided less by reason than by emotion and the
causes of emotion are deeply personal. So many managers personalize
benefits for subordinates, while the managers have the freedom to
choose the benefits, subordinates must accept whatever the manager
chooses and the problem being that subordinates or followers may value
the freedom to choose more than they value any given benefits. Then
they are charged with a lack of appreciation.
It is a very difficult
thing to place one's self in the position of others,because for
example a manager may try to do this with his subordinates but they
are severely handicapped because outside of work they know very
little about subordinates, their spiritual values,health condition,
lifestyle, ambitions, personal relationships,loyalties and so on.
Also apart from the problem of managers placing themselves in the
position of subordinates, there is a problem of understanding or
knowing the reaction subordinates would have to issues. Yet a
forthrite and conscentious effort to understand subordinates is much
better than none.
c) Objectivity: Being
objective means looking at things
in a detached,
impartial, fact-based way. Managers should strive to observe and
trace the causes of events unemotionally. Even though they depend
heavily on subordinates and often become emotional about them. It is
important to evaluate from a distance, determine the actual causes of
results and take intelligent steps to correct poor ones and encourage
good ones.
This contradicts
empathy, because empathy requires an attitude opposite to remoteness
and unemotional analysis. Over emphasizing empathy may cloud a
manager's ability to be objective, so a balance is needed. It may be
difficult to achieve but each has its place in effective leadership.
d) Self Knowledge: The
injunction to know thyself is used in the context of making people
aware of why they behave as they do and also what they do to draw
forth certain response, lack of response or even hostility from
others. It is impossible to empathize or be objective without self
knowledge. Managers should study how they behave and the reactions
they receive from subordinates, so that hey can correct those which
elicit negative responses. They should cultivate self knowledge and
put it to work intelligently by watching for favorable and
unfavorable reactions to their behavior and identifying causes.